Educating Children without Violence: Efforts to Train Polite Behavior and Noble Morals In early childhood

Authors

  • Zuhairansyah Arifin Universitas Islam Negeri Sultan Syarif Kasim Riau.
  • Nurkamelia Mukhtar Universitas Islam Negeri Sultan Syarif Kasim Riau.

Keywords:

education without violence, behavior, early childhood

Abstract

Abstract: The aim of the research is to find out various concepts of education without the practice of violence as an effort to train good behavior, politeness and high etiquette for young children. The research method is a literature study using child education theories related to polite behavior and commendable morals. The books used as references include educational books that want gentleness in education without violence. Data analysis by comparing the ideas and theories of non-violent education figures such as Muhammad Nabi Kazhim's book entitled Kayfa Nuaddibu Abnaaina bighairi dharbi. The results of the research found that efforts to train polite behavior for young children cannot be separated from following the instructions of the Koran and the Prophet's hadith. Humans are obliged to care for children as a trust, therefore parents must make efforts to provide quality education without violence and try to train polite behavior, by introducing Allah SWT from an early age, avoiding dirty words, stimulating children's development, getting used to it. children with honesty, giving role models, listening to children's criticism/reprimands, acting fairly, having the opportunity/time to play together, inviting children to take all knowledge wherever they are, providing quality reading for children at home, giving a smile when children understand.

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2023-11-11

How to Cite

Arifin, Z. ., & Mukhtar, N. . (2023). Educating Children without Violence: Efforts to Train Polite Behavior and Noble Morals In early childhood . Tarbiyah Suska Conference Series, 2(1), 136–151. Retrieved from https://jom.uin-suska.ac.id/index.php/TSCS/article/view/zuhai